Word to the 20 somethings...

I'm a little confused by posts, comments,  and things that are being written and said by my fellow fabulous 20 something young ladies. Soooo there was a bit of a baby boom and not all but some have a child or children. I digress, kudos for those of us that have stepped up in a major way to raise a great child/ren. Either your in school or working or taking care of home or doing it ALL to the best of your ability.  For those of you that have no children or responsibility other than yourselves don't stress over the things you don't have. Use this time to focus on the things that you have in front of you. Dont rush through your life trying to find the "one" especially if your searching for him with solely your vagina!  Word to the wise you cant have sex with every Paco, Rocko, and Flocko and then expect to get treated like a queen. Men actually enjoy the chase (to an extent) if your easy like Sunday morning guess where you'll be? Alone come Sunday night. You can't fill voids by trying to find a man or have a child. I always say the one thing you cannot get back is time.  Live your life whether you have a child or not. Granted if you have a child/ren they should most definitely with out a doubt be your main priority. I'm just saying to take time for you. As women we tend to get side tracked and can easily start living our lives for others, be it our children,  parents, significant other, sibling (s), whoever.  At the end of the day you have to take care of YOU.  What are your goals and aspirations?Where do you want to travel? Surround yourself with positive people moving forward in life. Let go of the nay sayers, the Debbie downers, negative Nancys, passive Paula's, Matt the moocher's, and the just all around blah type of people.  We are the future and our time is NOW.  Instead of criticizing Christine maybe you should get to know her a bit better.